Communication tips
Our quick tips may help you to communicate more effectively with an autistic person, whether it’s your child, pupil, colleague or friend.
Getting and keeping their attention
- Always use their name at the beginning so that they know you are talking to them.
- Make sure they are paying attention before you ask a question or give an instruction. The signs that someone is paying attention will be different for different people.
- Use their hobbies and interests, or the activity they are currently doing, to engage them.
- say less and say it slowly
- use specific keywords, repeating and stressing them
- pause between words and phrases to give the person time to process what you’ve said, and to give them a chance to think of a response
- don’t use too many questions
- use less non-verbal communication (eg eye contact, facial expressions, gestures, body language)
- use visual supports (eg symbols, timetables, Social Stories) if appropriate
- be aware of the environment (noisy/crowded) that you are in. Sensory differences may be affecting how much someone can process.
- Keep questions short
- Ask only the most necessary questions
- Structure your questions, eg you could offer options or choices
- Be specific. For example, ask “Did you enjoy your lunch?” and “Did you enjoy maths?” rather than “How was your day?”.
- Try using a different word or symbol.
- Autistic people may be confused about why you said no. If it’s an activity that they can do later on that day or week, try showing this in a timetable.
- ‘No’ is often used when someone is putting themselves or others in danger. If it’s a safety issue, look at ways of explaining danger and safety.
- If you are saying ‘no’ because someone is behaving inappropriately, you may want to change your reaction to their behavior. Try not to shout or give too much attention, a calm reaction may help to decrease this behaviour in time.
- Set clear boundaries and explain why and where it is acceptable and not acceptable to behave in certain ways.
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